Not finding the right partner, the ticking clock and how to be patient:
There
are no rules to getting married at a certain age, no rules by which you
have to find your partner until you reach the age of.. 30. So why
should you be in a hurry? Because you see other peoples being in a
hurry? Yeah, that is their problem not yours. Who tells you when you
have to find your wife/husband?
- Parents?
- Friends?
- Neighbors?
- The old man from the park?
There is no such a connection between age and marriage, of course
there are optimum biological ages when your body is most effective for
certain activities, but that has absolutely nothing to do with your life
experience. You should get married when you are ready for it, when you
feel ready, not somebody else!
- If you don’t feel ready you are not no matter your age
- If you feel ready you are, then you have to wait for the right person to come.
It`s simple, be patient or else you could be very sorry, good thing
come to those who wait. Many people especially women around the age of
30, feel like an internal / biological ticking clock, that is forcing
them to jump faster into marriage without considering many important
variables. I don’t see men doing this, so I’ll refer to women: Please
understand that the right person for you has absolutely nothing in
common with your biological clock, and that although it’s possible to
meet an almost suited partner, it’s never a good idea to tie the knots
with other person than your truly soul mate. Dear women, please stop
doing this terrible mistake, as this is not affecting only you, you are
also damaging your husband’s life, by making a decision based on the
fear of being alone!In my opinion the only reason for which two persons
should be together(in marriage or relationship) is true love. Never stay
with someone if there is no love, never get married with other person
than your destined soul mate!
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