Saturday 1 June 2013

Not finding the right partner, the ticking clock and how to be patient: 

There are no rules to getting married at a certain age, no rules by which you have to find your partner until you reach the age of.. 30. So why should you be in a hurry? Because you see other peoples being  in a hurry? Yeah, that is their problem not yours. Who tells you when you have to find your wife/husband?
  • Parents?
  • Friends?
  • Neighbors?
  • The old man from the park?
There is no such a connection between age and marriage, of course there are optimum biological  ages when your body is most effective for certain activities, but that has absolutely nothing to do with your life experience. You should get married when you are ready for it, when you feel ready, not somebody else!
  • If you don’t feel ready you are not no matter your age
  • If you feel ready you are, then you have to wait for the right person to come.
It`s simple, be patient or else you could be very sorry, good thing come to those who wait. Many people especially women around the age of 30, feel like an internal / biological  ticking clock, that is forcing them to jump faster into marriage without considering many important variables. I don’t see men doing this, so I’ll refer to women: Please understand that the right person for you has absolutely nothing in common with your biological clock, and that although it’s possible to meet an almost suited partner, it’s never a good idea to tie the knots with other person than your truly soul mate. Dear women, please stop doing this terrible mistake, as this is not affecting only you, you are also damaging your husband’s life, by making a decision based on the fear of being alone!In my opinion the only reason for which two persons should be together(in marriage or relationship) is true love. Never stay with someone if there is no love, never get married with other person than your destined soul mate!

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