What you want, what the partner wants:
Understanding
your situation, means who you are and what you want to do or what you
are expecting from a relationship. After that discussing and comparing
with the needs and wants of your partner, will help you understand what
is the relationship status, where it could go, and what the reality is.
For example if you love kids but your partner doesn’t feel in the same
way, maybe this is not such a good start. You have to prioritize your
needs and wants, compared those with the person next to you, see how he
is prioritizing his, open your eyes and see the future. Two persons that
are not going the same direction, or don’t have the same idea of living
a full life will not go very far together(happy) . To avoid being
fooled by a person who only wants to show to you what you want to see,
observe your partner at a deeper level. For example, if your girlfriend
is telling you how much she loved kids, try to observe her when she is
near them. Words can fool you, but true feelings and instant reactions
cannot. So the whole idea when trying to understand your partner is
don’t stop at just listening to the words that he has to say, but try to
observe and feel how he really is, and what he really thinks about that
idea. Here, as in many cases listening is good but understanding it
better
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